Holla wives :) I bet everyone is jumping your heart out because long weekend is coming ! Whee !! Which means we gonna have extra-occupied-butterfly-tummy-feelings-ahh-you-know-how-it-feels days. (Well I am not yet a weekend wife, at least for now. But he left me a week ago for work *sigh*. Anywayss, will be one in 4 weeks time *double sigh*.)
Well people, I always been asked on how do we cope to long distance marriage. Even we haven’t been a weekend wife/husband yet ! Like can you people spare some space for us to appreaciate the little time we have at this very moment? Aku pun malas nak fikir, inikan pula others. But ya, thanks for all your concern. I had so many kinds of reactions:
“Laa.. dah kawin duduk jauh-jauh. Baik tak payah kawin !”
“Maybe u have to sacrifise la. Benti kerja. Carik duit sampai bila-bila pun tak cukup”
“Ohh you guys punya pemikiran ni tersangat modern. Memang orang yang berfikiran moden moden ni, anggap long distance marriage becomes a trend nowadays. Patutlah you guys don’t mind at all”
“Hrrmm susah la nak dapat baby ramai-ramai”
Ok you want more? Enough said, aku pun dah muak with all those thoughts.
Come on people. Who on earth likes to be apart from the other half? You tell me now.
NONE.
So, just shut up. Put yourselves in our shoes and you’ll understand how do we feel. Really.
It’s so easy to tell people on their face- to sacrifice, quit their jobs, yada..yada..yada. Seriously, if both of us can afford to have a comfy life with only one person’s earning, we’ll do it straight away. Tak payah orang cakap pun, kami akan buat ok. And if quitting job is so easy- not bonded to the company, tak payah bayar the scholarship yang akan convert jadik loan if we decide to leave the company, tak payah breach the contract.. and all this so called political nonsense (ohh pandailah kau kata nonsense padahal dah makan duit company selama 5 tahun masa belajar dulu. Hiks. Ok I am so grateful on that)…And lots of ‘what-if’ situation. Oh lovely.
And long distance marriage is not a trend ok! I don’t believe it. It’s like ooh ok, kami sangat suka ber-long-distance-marriage sebab ianya cool dan telah menjadi trend terkini. Insane.
Sorry for the disturbance entry di pagi Jumaat. Ok ok jom chill sebab cuti ialah 4 hari. Hoyeh ! Have a great long weekend people.
Hugs.
Thursday, February 11, 2010
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yeay.. i can write comments now.
ReplyDeleteI agree with you. its not our choice to live apart like this. its one sacrifice we have to make..to put on hold our married life.
yes it is common now, because both guys n girls nowadays are working and work nature demand us to be at different places, different cities. but it is not a trend.
nobody purposely plan to be in LDM, we are suck into it.
nice blog..i suka dgn blog ni..well, i'm new this blog thingy ;o)
ReplyDeleten..i'm a wikend wife also..infact, i'm the one who is travelling..hope we can be frenz n share da sorrows and happiness together of being LDM thingy;o)